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Skinner
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My first ever relationship started 6 years ago when i was 15, after 5 years and 9 months i realised she had started to go off me, i was retarded enough to suggest a break so she could sort her feelings out, she broke my heart and we split up and i've had a pretty bad half a year since, a few weeks ago (after seeing other guys..) she decided she wanted to know me again, we started talking again and it gave me the will to live. (On a grim note, i think this happend just in time..) but despite all the hurt of what she did we've started talking and seeing eachother again (i know im pathetic after all she did to me) but you cant help how you feel, she seems keen now and we've started F(_)cking again, but despite that after we did it i tell her i love her, she replies the same and i say "But not enough to be with me..."  (officially like)                  

she replies.. "Im getting there :)"

 

So-what-the-****-is-that-about? am i being used? is she doing it because she knows me and its easy for her? or is it because she knew the state i was in and is trying to be kind in some sort of sick way? who knows but im terrified its going to **** up again and ill be left feeling worse than i was the first time.

All i know is, relationships and "love" sucks, and i hope that some day i'll lose my feelings for her and be happy, bit of a grim post.. not sure why ive even wrote it, but the moral of the story is that relationships suck and eventually will only cause pain, so dont delude yourself into thinking it will last forever!



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Not sure what to tell ya, Skinner.

Perhaps she meant it when she said "I'm getting there"?

After-all, you wouldn't be sleeping together if she didn't feel some sort of connection.. or maybe I'm wrong. XD.

And certain individuals just seem to click together. I'm sure love isn't ****ty for everyone.. Just some who are unlucky.

Hope you can find a solution to your dilemma.

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As a woman and you know, been there done that, kinda thing.... I think that she may either have a guy on the side who she's trying to sort her feelings out with as well as you, orrrrr(the most plausable one if she aint no ho bag) because you two dated for sooooooo long and then you suggested a break, it ****ed her up bad and she is trying to see your side of it and forgive you.

Just have a talk with her and be like "I just want you to know I love you and did suggest a break out of love and never wanted to hurt you" and la di da. After that, her feelings towards you should be clearer.

Love doesn't suck by the way. It just so happens that people suck in many ways and loving someone means loving their suckiness along with their amazing qualities that attracted you to them in the first place :)

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Hmm i hadnt thought that she may have feelings for another that she could be trying to sort out.. that could be quite possible, i know its not that shes hurt or needs to forgive me for suggesting the break, i was the one who was hurt by it because my feelings hadnt changed, hers did >_< she knows that, i sat here on the sofa thinking about her every day for months while she was off trying to see other people. 

"It just so happens that people suck" I agree entirely. heh, i thought to myself "ill have to try guys next instead" but neither men or women suck the most, everyone does.. everyone would be better off dead tbh.   

I think the plan is to try and play it cool, get over the anxiety and try to take her out to more places and have fun and try to get the spark back, things are going well right now i saw her yesterday and she wants to see me again :]

Thanks for the replies both, very kind of you, and ty for the helpful advice Dandelion >_< x



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Oh, anytime :)

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