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Well ... i'm just really, really confused about my history with a girl.

I will tell you guys whats happen with me and her on theses months and i want your opinion about this cuz i'm still in "Wtf mode".

 

Ok here we go, i meet her in a ZPS Server, first she said that loved all of my maps and deathruns too. Saying that she's a big fan and etc. So i added her in my friend list and we start to talk about lot of things and other normal stuff. biggrin

All this time, we were playing together and having fun in my deathruns maps and others, and then, she started to like me as a big friend of her. The thing is, i know that you're starting to think " Ah Friendzone detected." NO! I'm not in that kind of friendzone because i don't wanted anything with her or more than friends. I said to her first, she said to me too that we're just "BFF" not more than that and i agreed with that. ( I don't date girls that lives in other countrys cuz of the distance, a relationship need to be created face-to-face not via Internet/Steam ) :3

In september she broke up with her boyfriend that she was in 2~3 weeks i think. That day i tried to make her do a smile and be happy in that moment and play some ZPS with me, she accepted and we go together, but she was soo mad to talk about that subject and i respect that. After some days, the things that i remember that we were spec in the "Spec room" of a map with 2 more friends ( The other 2 friends were a couple ) and we were having some fun ( Like jumping around, fire/slap used by me in that time with us just for a minutes ). Then she leaved the server and i didn't noticed that in some minutes. So i go to talk with her like giving some "hugs" in chat. She just said "No" and went Offline. So i stayed "Wtf happen?!" confuse

Next day i tried to talk with her to ask what happen yesterday or whats wrong , she just keep quiet and go play alone in one server, i followed her and she keep quiet saying any words. After 3 times asking to her, she said that was mad with something and to don't ask more about that. hmm

I said "Ok then i will stop" ; but she said was better to block me . But wasn't only a block, she deleted me as freind and keep blocking me for 4~6 days i don't know.And the next week i discovered that she was dating her EX-Boyfriend in Steam. ( No, is not the same guy that i mentioned over there ). The crazy thing is that she have broke up with him some months ago because she didn't know soo much about his life and he have abused his Admin powers to ban her in one server. But after all that, they're together again ??? disbelief

 

So i ask to you my dear friend that have read all of my crazy history : WATA HELL HAS GOING ON IN THIS? Seriously, whats happen in her mind and maked her block and deleted me with no valid reason?? Cuz i don't see any reason that probably maked her mad with me ( If was with me ) or with other thing that i really, REALLY don't know yet  >.>

We were soo nice talking all days, playing normal. And one day she went crazy and act like a stupid child and do all that???

PS : No, in any moment i wanted to "date her", try to "attract" her. I treated her as a good friend all this time. aww

PSS: One weeks ago, she said that "Love me so much like a friend" and always trying to speak my language (Portuguese) like "How're you" "I love/like you" in portuguese. That moments was funny. biggrin




-- Edited by Tabajara77 on Wednesday 21st of November 2012 08:02:19 AM

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Hey, Tabajara.. thanks for sharing this with us. Hope talking about it helped somewhat.

Yeah, quite the odd situation you seemed to have been part of. I find it rather excessive to go as far as to remove you over something so miniscule. Perhaps she was becoming close to you? (as much as you may want to deny it ;p).. Or she was maybe feeling regret that she had already been seeing her ex-boyfriend through Steam the whole while.. not sure what to tell ya.

I think you should maybe try to re-add her.. Let's hope that she didn't block communication with you and maybe only removed you. Just say hi or be friendly as you normally would.. the positive gesture itself may be enough to at least get conversation and maybe some gameplay going between you two again. ;D

You could also risk asking her about it yourself.. but like you said that might make her angry. It's really a gamble.

Wish I could offer you some more guidance! If she was a great friend you should try to talk with her again.



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Some crazy relationship u have here, Tabajara

I dont have much advice 2 give you in this area, but i think you should find a way to speak 2 here and just be the friendly, zombie-shooting person you have always been toward her. If she was such a great friend as u said she has to be happy to see you. Good Luck with that................ women, am i right? ;)

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I thiiiiiink, cause you know, girl and all that....
That she does/did like you as more of a friend and realized you only wanted friendship and felt really bad. She then blocked you so you wouldnt be a 'distraction' to her new relationship.
Orrrrr she thinks you like her and blocked you so she wouldnt feel guilty.
One of those two. Even sayin things like 'I love you' or 'hugs' can have implication behind them on the internet. It's just that she was getting mixed signals from you and couldnt tell because its the interwebs.

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